turn up the gain and you risk feedback.
When I played live, we normally ran the vocal mics up as far as we could go before feedback occurred. Set the EQ and make minor adjustments and let it roll from there.
I don't know of any magic bullets that will get your vocal any louder on a live stage without exceeding the feedback threshold. The best option would be to have the other players play softer if the goal is hearing the whisper vocals...... it will add some cool dynamic to the song. Or, have just one thing play like a muted guitar part.... be creative.