Bandontherun - very good topic and thread discussion. Being a one man show, performer, engineer, mixer, mastererer is a formidable endeavor without doubt. You are aspiring to something that can be learned (mixing) but you already possess something that cannot (talent). Your mixes are not bad at all as Danny pointed out, a little tweaking here and there and you are golden. Your performances, on the other hand, are really top notch and that is something that is given to you, not learned. Sure, you can fine-tune your skills, but without the underlying talent you are just spinning your wheels. If I were coached by the world's greatest vocal coach, I would still be a horrible singer because I do not possess any vocal talent to build from.
Looking at Performance vs Engineering/Recording, vs Mix and Mastering. Take for example, the recent post of Queen's "Making of Bohemian Rhapsody" in the Techniques Forum. Clearly the 4 guys in Queen had tremendous talent, Freddie inparticular. If you have the 24-track multi-track, available on the Internet, listen to the individual instruments, they are not great recordings. The performances are good, but certain aspects of the recordings are pretty bad when they stand alone. It is the full rendering of the individual performaces into the full song that makes it shine. The piano sounds like a cheap upright piano when solo'd, the guitar is out of tune and sounds pretty bad solo'd, drums are Ok but Superior Drummer samples are much better, only the Bass and Vocals (particularly Freddy) sound exceptional when solo'd. Bohemian Rhapsody is a good example that if you have good/great performances, you can create something really exceptional even with mediocre recordings. In the case of Bohemian Rhapsody, the mix engineer is able to combine these mediocre tracks (except for vocals and bass- they are pretty outstanding solo'd) into something that has become a masterpiece to some, that has stood the test of time even by todays' technology standards. I have heard that song a million times since 1975 and I would never have guessed that the piano sounded like my grandmother's 1930's upright piano (slightly out of tune) and the guitar tracks were out of tune in places and sounded like one of my early guitar lessons;) You just don't hear it in the full recording. The piano sounds like a Steinway and the guitars sound amazing. By the standards of the day in 1974/1975, the recordings were well done but anyone with a decent computer, sound card, plug-ins, etc... can acheive the same or better standards at home today.
So my point is, anyone is capable of producing high quality recordings if they have 1) talent, and or, talented collaborators 2) a way to capture the talent and 3) an understand the basics of mixing. You my friend, already have all these elements, and I would say the most valuable of the elements, talent.
Honestly the best way to learn mixing is to work with someone who is good at it. I have read a ton of books, trial and errored for years, but learned a lot that I "get" and can "apply" from a recent video that Danny did for me. Studying some of the multi-tracks availalble on the Internet are also a good way to see and hear how others do it. I think Radiohead freely distribute their multi-tracks at least to some of their songs.
Danny - really nice post.
Regards