@ Danny:
ITA - Being different for the sake of it; however, that's how it often comes across. As I said before, sometimes you have to fit in before you standout. Or fit in
to stand out.
Too many times, we see what is the similar about something so rigidly, we hardly notice the differences.
I asked someone if Blossoms should have lyrics whereas Waltz didn't; however, someone noted that Waltz kept messing with them, so much that they hardly noticed what wasn't familiar.
I noted a few in the above post of mine, but listeners pick out what they want - even if it's noted what they should pick out. Yet, you want them to notice everything - despite some things sticking out more than others. I mean, more than just from a production standpoint, but certain from that standpoint as well.
Having said this, not everybody should suddenly shift to being arrangers, but I think that may become the "new" definition of being original because it's isn't what you have, but how you use it. (How to make that sound less dirty.)
For instance, I took that simple melody, but never altered it, but I did do that with the harmony which also has a melodic structure. And this in fact, changed even the melody despite not having touched it.
"Use what you know (the melody) to figure out what you don't (the harmony)." Arrangers live by this motto (or it should be one anyway) And it goes for so many other areas in music and outside of it.
And since when is doing this "fake"? It's not doing this that makes whatever's done - not "real."
Someone who plays by ear isn't any more or less real than a sight-reader. Less Rigid, Formal-By-the-Sheet Music, yes, but real - no!
It's all comes down to perception which comparing can hinder, so it's best not to do that or you've already lost your identity. Sight-readers are who they are as are ear players. Yet, they can make the most wonderful of music when playing together.
(Btw, I hope you can recognize me in 10 secs as well.)
@ Triumph:
Don't second guess yourself because there's that rule if it sounds good it is good. It may be a contextual issue that cause people to second guess themselves.
From a composition pov (as well as production), understand how things work and why they work the way they do greatly reduces second guessing yourself. Trying to figure out a progression ... what's sounds good works very well, but know why it sounds good. (This likes to go here and that there which makes it flow like I want it) ups the certainty that what you use will work. MWV from song to song, but there's a particular way progressions work and this doesn't vary if only very little.
To me, music is her own person.
We started on a minor chord and she went to the parallel major on her own! I had nothing to do it - nor did I question her (because she's smarter than I) However, I did know how she got there because I know what she likes and doesn't like to do. (She argues, but love each other very much)
No offense to anyone who is married (and I'm not) but there's your life lesson.