Rus: well said. I think at the end of the day, some of the differences are going to be based on everyone's approach/feeling on this. If everyone had the same mentality, we'd live in a forrest where all the birds chirped the same song. :)
Mike: this really stood out to me.
"I agree though, a lot of it is not really trying to find a way to be different, its more like doing the things you really like, while kind of finding out what make you different and unique."
I'd like to use myself in this situation if I may? I'm an 80's rocker that loves all styles of music. I tend to lean towards what I grew up on that made the most impact on me. Like the die-hard classic rock guys will always mention who they like best and what they feel is best, I'm no different. What I like to think I have going for me is I have never shot down anything and just listened to music and enjoyed it while taking things from it sub-consciously over the years.
When I was born, my mom was into all the cool 60's stuff. I liked it too. As I grew older, there were certain pieces of music that really hit me...some, I could care less for. I can still remember being 5 years old with headphones on playing my drums to Chicago, Alice Cooper, Beatles, The Who, Bing Crosby and whatever else my mom had around the house. LOL! But something happened to me during the 80's that just made me LIVE music instead of just listen to it. What that was....I have no idea because there wasn't much going on musically other than some pretty intense guitar...so I believe that may have been what it was for me.
That said, I just emulated my heros until I sort of found myself. I'm not doing anything different that hasn't been done before and though I'm not inspiring any generations, I have made an impact on a few peoples lives while getting a chance to share my music with the world. That to me, is success in a sense because I found what my personal "voice" is all about even if it's influenced by "so and so" and has a familiar sound. Some day, maybe that won't be the case for me and I'll have this completely different sound that doesn't even resemble anything else.
But until that time...I'm completely content with what I do right now and get excited each time I finish a song. When this happens, I call my best friend and say "dude, I had another kid...you gotta come over and meet him!" He does the same to me when he finishes a song. So we meet up, have a beer or two and enjoy our new children. Sure, some of them look and sound like other children but that's ok. Sometimes we end up with something totally off the wall and experimental that may go astray from our standard norm....that's ok too.
As long as you feel good about what you do when all is said and done, it will always have your stamp on it whether it's different, mind-blowing and innovative or just a killer pop rock song with an infectious hook. But I still think when we try to be different, it needs to be an educated decision of "different". I just can't for the life of me....accept something "for the sake of" that may ruin a song because that "different" was done in bad taste. I know...that's not for me to decide, but I hear it all the time and it makes me cringe to the point of not liking something.
Accept the art part I do...but to me, when something sounds bad, it just sounds bad. When a jazz guy has a beautiful melody and decides to go so far out of the box that it no longer sounds musical, I say "why did you have to do it in THIS song?" When a guitar player shreds a million notes per second or decides to sweep pick like a broom in a ballad, I say "why did you have to do it in THIS song?" and I'm a shred lover.
When the Beatles did some of their weird stuff....it always seemed to fit no matter what. I don't ever remember cringing over one of their decisions other than I have always hated Paul's slightly flat vocal in "Twist and Shout". It just sounded too out of his range, strained and well...regardless of how much of a hit it was, as a musician and a singer that prides himself on staying in key, I think it sounded bad and still sounds bad to this day when ANY singer attempts to sing out of their range. Some can call it art, me personally...I just call it "bad decision making" and definitely a questionable performance that should have maybe been a bit more thought out. But this is why guys like Paul are stars and I'm typing on a forum wishing I was one. :)
-Danny