still. i even tried bouncing it all to a track first before exporting which really just produced the exact same file i think since it was the same exact length and the same everything else.
this particular song is just 3 tracks. tracks 1 and 3 are exact to the bar, track 2 is a little bit shorter, but i even tried both leaving it like that and extending the clip to the end of the bar just in case that made a difference.
i'm really starting to think that it's just windows media player that can't seem to play a seamless loop. wavelab is "almost" perfect now. it doesn't have the skip but it's not 100% exact. hopefully when the guy plugs it into his iphone app it will work like it works in sonar. if not i'll probably update this post with more questions :-)