I had the same dilemma. I installed the 64-bit version, and it works fine. I recall that installing it was tricky because it defaulted to the 32-bit program files folder. Also I was confused about DXi vs. VST versions. I believe that the 64-bit version is VST only. I had to call Cakewalk for help.
For this kind of money, it's reasonable to expect to be able to install the 64-bit version of Dimension Pro (if you're using Sonar 64-bit).