Hi Kev, I'd like to give you a different approach here other than listing reference material. I've actually stopped doing this unless I've been asked to come close to something. The reason I've stopped is every band to me needs to be treated as its own separate entity while achieving it's own distinct voice.
For example, I had a client that once asked me to get as close to <insert name of band> as possible. I nailed it in my opinion and wasn't crazy about the idea from the beginning, but that's what he wanted. He then called me and said "it's cool, but when I listen to this OTHER band, there are things that are lacking". Ok, so wait, let's take a time out here. He tells me he wants the sound of this other band, I get it and now it's not right because it doesn't have the sound of this OTHER band? LOL! I wasn't even mad...I actually found it a bit funny...and so did he. :)
Needless to say, it was a remaster. But, the second time I did it, I took the approach of creating a sound that best enhanced THAT band without comparing it to anyone else. Of course the client loved the final outcome and in my opinion, it was way better than what we had originally. I think comparing for certain instances can be helpful, but the main thing to concentrate on is YOUR sound.
The problem with reference material is when you are mixing, you are listening to a mastered recording. When a mastering guy gets the job, what he gets isn't what you are hearing. This in turn can really mess up your decision making if you're not careful during the mix stage. Then again, it can also help you if you know what and how to listen for things.
The main thing to keep in mind is...when referencing, you have to compare in moderation while keeping certain aspects at bay. Unless you have a kick drum and bass guitar like what you are comparing to, chances are you very well might ruin YOUR mix based on trying to achieve THEIR mix. Using reference mixes to hone in on certain things is a plus, but you STILL have to mix your material as YOUR material without goign too crazy listening to the other stuff, know what I mean?
It's also super important to compare with the correct genre. I got buds that love Doobie Brothers albums that use them for references. That's not going to help them with a rock album of today with the sonics we have now that we didn't have before. Sure, we can borrow certain elements but we have to be careful. That would be like comparing the old rap band Suagar Hill Gang with something new from DMX. It's just silly to compare in *most* scenarios there.
In my case, I have albums from every genre that I use when I need to. For the more modern stuff, I'm no Creed fan, but the sound that was achieved on "Overcome" has been a benchmark for me in the modern rock/metal area. Godsmack The Oracle album is another good piece of production.
For middle of the road rock/pop with great drums and bass, Living Color always comes to mind for me. Listen to that song Cult of Personality. The darned thing sounds exactly the same everywhere you play it...even on lappy speakers. LOL! I'm not a fan of the lead guitars, but the bass, drums and Glover's vocals are just off the hook.
For classic rock stuff, you can't beat the Foreigner/Doobies/Steely Dan/Boston/Bad Company/Zep/Kansas etc. stuff. These are just examples off the top of my head, but you always want to make sure you compare the right stuff. We can't allow an album that sounds great to dictate what we are working on if the genre isn't similar. Even there, you want your own sound. You may just start something new without the reference stuff. I personally try to stay away from reference material unless I'm having a problem or may be losing my way. When I compare my final result to something it never sounds like them...it sounds like me with elements of them. :)
So make sure you're careful and just take what you need from a good album without driving yourself too crazy. Often times when you listen to the big guns for comparisson purposes, what you THINK you hear isn't always the case. For example, bass guitar usually has less low end in it than people think. Yet when you listen to a pro album, it gives you the impression there is more. If you could solo that bass up and listen to it, you'd be quite amazed at how it doesn't have the low end you think it does. So stay focused when doing this stuff man but don't pull your hair out over it...best of luck and I hope this helps a bit. :)
-Danny