Bill, your X sound's like a cleverly disguised black hole. You can check in any time you like but you can never leave...
You should BOTH write wills leaving everything to the other AT THE SAME TIME. Of course you should probably give Bapu POA over you (keep that part quiet), nothing says I love you like a nice surprise, right?
If we have to look for you I guess X mark's the spot??
or..
Maybe she just decided you aren't so bad after all.
J