Donny it really sounds like you are getting into them and that is very good. I like to listen on the small speaker very quietly as well. It does not have to be that loud either. So many things start to stick out as being out of place. It is good to mix on them rather than switching back and forth to your mains. Setting vocal levels correctly in relation to the music is one of its great strengths. It helps balancing vocal harmonies too against the lead vocal.
Reverbs are harder to hear on the small speaker but I have found that if you can hear the reverb clearly on the small speaker it means there is too much of it usually. It will reveal if the bass is too loud too. You will learn what the correct amount of reverb and bass sounds like on the cube. It is interesting how much about the high end you can hear even when you cannot hear it well on the speaker. Excessive highs in your mix determine what you hear in the small speaker too.
There is a point when you can hear all the things in your mix nicely down low coming from a mono mix cube or small speaker and then when you monitor that up loud and in stereo again usually it sounds terrific and very well balanced. I find a small speaker mix can be cranked right up to 105 dB SPL plus
(on the mains of course!!!) and the mix sounds fabulous still and does not hurt in any way. The spectrum appears well balanced. Nice amount of energy right from deep 40 Hz notes right up to 15Khz and beyond.
I am mixing a hip hop tune for a client and while the verses are sparser and clearer when the choruses come in there are a lot more parts and a lot of drama is added at this point. I have been having issues balancing everything on these loud choruses. I kept the music up on the mains thinking I would need to in order to hear all the detail better at these complex points in the music. In the end I pulled everything down to zero at that point and rebuilt the mix on the small speaker of the loud complex sections. I was able to bring everything back in again in the right proportions etc.. Then up loud on the mains it just sounded killer at these points now. It solved a problem for me.
I call it a small bottleneck to put your entire mix through yet when you do, it seems to create an almost microscopic view of your mix from another angle. It lets you hear when things are out of balance. Listen to quality reference mixes on the speaker to get an idea of how they sound too. Nice usually.