joshua, On line my friend....online. I like working on line when I do write.
Unless you are willing to go and hang out in the songwriter coffee shops.... and rub elbows with all sorts of folk....nothing like bumping into a drunk songwriter musician who fancies himself to be the next big thing. You gotta sift through a lot of bad writers and jerks to find the right one that is your compatible future writing partner.
There is one thing I would recommend..... Look up the folks in your local Nashville Songwriter's Chapter in KC.
Here's their web site:
http://www.nashvillesongwriters.com/kansas-city-mo Don't let the "Nashville" part of the name throw you. Yeah, it tends to have lots of country writers but you also get some really talented writers who write more than just country. Our local Raleigh NC chapter is pretty diverse musically.
Check them out. At the very least, you are meeting with a bunch of people who are mostly serious about songwriting. Delusions of grandeur and skill bankruptcy ....well, you'll still have to choose collaborators wisely.
The song Whiskey for Breakfast that I had just posted here a few weeks back was a collab with one of the better writers in the Raleigh chapter. Even though we are local and could have gotten together at one or the other of our houses, we did the entire thing across the internet.