OK - lots of things going on with your setup.
I believe some of this CAN be resolved, with a combination of you providing some information, and us working with that info and with you, to make some settings changes that should make things run better for you.
I HAVE to go run over to the local Social Security office to pick up some paperwork for my son, and so it will be 2-3 hours until I can devote some time to helping you.
That said - I WILL block out time this afternoon when I return, to work methodically through these issues.
Quickly though, before I go:
1. When running ASIO, which is fine (usually the best choice), you do NOT want to have the Windows Default Audio Device to be set to your audio interface, since that WILL interfere with Sonar accessing it. I will show you a couple of ways to take care of that and still have the ability to hear both Sonar sound and Windows sounds (media player, YouTube, etc).
2. Your laptop is almost certainly going to have a wi-fi adapter, and these can wreak HAVOC with latency. Many folks temporarily turn off or even disable their wi-fi adapters in Windows, just prior to launching a Sonar session, and then turn them back on or enable them again after finishing the Sonar session. This is a FREQUENT occurrence when a wi-fi adapter is present. Many laptops have either a function key or a little switch that will temporarily turn off the wi-fi adapter.
3. Many audio interfaces do not behave well when plugged into a USB 3 port, so you want to make sure that either you are plugged into a USB 2 port, or that the interface is clearly designed to be able to be plugged into a USB 3 port.
4. Sonar HATES it when a computer goes to sleep. it loses connection with things like the audio interface, and it generally can wig out, so you need to change settings on the laptop to be like Max Power, all the time, no sleeping on the job, and all of that. I set up a few shortcuts on my laptop's desktop screen, to allow me to manually put the computer into sleep more or locked mode, etc., and would manually do that only after exiting out of a given Sonar session.
5. We will need to look at your current reported latency values in Sonar, and likely will need to change those to get a decent latency for Sonar when recording. When mixing, the ASIO Buffer Size can be jacked way up - like to 1024, but for recording it needs to be much lower.
Anyways, I have to go, but again I DO believe we can get you squared away so please do not yet kick the dog, or bury the wife in the back yard, out of frustration.
If others have not gotten you up and running smoothly prior to my return, I PROMISE you I will spend some more time trying to help.
It is now a bit after noon, I should be back by around 3 PM or at the latest 4 PM.
Bob Bone