I always had a similar problem but with the "open with" option. It always opens the first Sonar installed on my puter but I can't get to open with the version of Sonar I want. It always opens in 8.?? and would like it to open in X2.
It's not a huge deal as I only use the "open with" command for opening up midi files to work with. I've always just done that and save the project as normal and then open in X2. If I could get it to open in X2, I could uninstall all the previous versions I don't use.