caminitic
Aside from an apparent lack of bass level, my mixes suffer mostly from 1% of the gear as the big boys...
Please don't take this the wrong way, but many classic albums were cut on gear that had 1% of the potential of what's loaded on your computer. And a lot of the mixes had obvious flaws, but they had energy and life.
The trap with getting good and having experience is you then know enough to mix a song to death.
To me - and let me emphasize this is a very
subjective take on the subject - a mix is a
performance. You play the faders like an instrument as you "conduct" your miniature orchestra. As to EQ and dynamics, download the tutorial I did on mixing with the ProChannel. As one person noted, I did some pretty extreme things that break the "rules," but the sound was better afterward, which is the primary rule.
The learning curve you need to climb is this: When you listen back and hear something that needs fixing,
you need to know how to fix it. That indeed comes from experience. Analyzing what others do may or may not help...
Once I was producing an album where there were two oboe parts playing together and they clashed horribly. I found the resonant frequency of one oboe, and used EQ to notch that out on the other oboe and adding a different artificial resonant frequency. The artist starting writing and I asked what he was doing. "Writing down the EQ settings." I had to tell him it was highly unlikely those settings would translate to another situation.
You have to listen carefully, identify what's wrong, then fix it...and most importantly, have fun doing it. That's what mixing is all about