To fix start time just drag your video to the right in Vegas, leaving the desired head room at the front.
Render everything including the front empty part and import into Sonar.
Simple as pie.
In Sonar.
Create your audio. Export the final mix. (audio only 48/24bit)
Add that to an audio track in Vegas.
Drop markers in Vegas at the beginning of what you want to render and at the end of what you want to render.
Select from marker to marker and render looped area only.
Make sure your frame rates are set the same in both programs.
It couldn't be easier.