"Mix/Mastering compression - how to choose?"
well, the first thing is to make sure that you are not confusing mixing, with mastering.
the approach to either of those,
is completely different.
then, you have to ask yourself,
are you wanting to 'color' your mix,
or control it?
once you've answered that,
you can do the homework and discover which style, type or model of compressor is best for what you want to do.
then you can acquire the compressor.
then you can start to learn how to use it.
sorry if that seems oversimplified,
but it is just that.
no one else can 'learn' you about what kind of compression you are going to want on a 2-bus or while mastering,
but the reasons for using a compressor to begin with, should guide your choice.