Well, I am sorry to report that loading 2 instances of EZdrummer1 won't work because EZ1 does not install as a program but just as a vst "shared" as DeeringAmps stated. I tried several ways to try to trick the install but there seems to be no way to instuct EZ1 where to install the vst and then select a second installation place. I am going to keep trying to see if I can get this setup to work but I am not optimistic about it working. Maybe it could work with a dual boot machine but I am (so far) not going to reformat my system to have a dual boot. Ah well, at least I have X3 running now. Too bad EZ2 will be sitting in a download folder for who knows how long. If I had know I might have put in some extra cash and gotten Addictive Drums. But I do love EZdrummer and I am so disappointed.
Good luck to everyone else working on this problem. I will check in periodically to see if anyone has come up with any other solutions.