Great suggestions. I still don't want the last node, though. I find it more exact to right-click a node and change the value than to drag the whole envelope. Sometimes 1db or 0.5db is the right change. Sometimes the mix sounds good, but everything needs to go up or down slightly to get the peak at the right place. I find it hard to make those delicate changes by dragging, and it is easy to mess up the mix.
So, great tools suggested here, but I would still like Sonar only to add the nodes I want and not assume I want another at the end of the song. This is a really minor thing, though.