It's not the case that
everyone found the need to bounce V-Vocal clips
The need always seemed to be system specific
Speaking from my own experience, I ran a project several years ago which consisted of 75 tracks, multiple vocal clips, all with live unbounced VV clips and all of my soft synths were running without freezing
What's even more impressive was this was on a machine running XP32 bit with 4Gb of RAM and a Q6700 cpu
As far as Melodyne is concerned, I can't really help as I still use V-Vocal.
VV's only drawback for me is that opening old projects in X3e invariably leads to crashes when trying to edit existing V-Vocal material, but it's fine on new projects