If all else fails, there is Nembutal or Seconol. Seriously though, I have a hard time and for years 50mg of Trazadone helped me with no morning fuzziness, I had to go to 100mg, then after abut 10yrs it just stopped working. I now use Tizanidine. It is a muscle relaxer. The daily limit on it is 36mg (which is pretty amazing, I don't know how anyone would function with that much). It comes in a 4mg tablet, scored 4 ways. If you try it start with 1mg, maybe 2. It will last about 4 hours and you can take another half if you wake up after 4 hours. I've taken it for years and have noticed no morning hangover from it... it's in and out fast. My doctor put me on Klonopin for cluster headaches, 1mg twice a day. I had a headache every day for over two years. It broke the cycle but it is like that thing from the Alien movies that gets on your face if you try to stop taking it, even slow titration. Stay away from it.
Actually, for several years I was taking 8mg of Tizanidine at bedtime, last year I cut back to 4 and didn't have a problem.
When I first got it, it was for neck ache and headache. I remember because we were at Shands Clinic with my father in law, in Gainesville, FL... family in the big waiting room. I took 1/4 tab (1mg) and in 20 minutes fell asleep sitting in a chair, middle of the afternoon. Thankfully it didn't last too long... but it WILL put you to sleep with very minimal side effects or after effects.
I wonder, after you stopped smoking, did you start having WILD dreams after a few days? That used to happen to me, long ago when I'd be a regular and stop. I noticed I didn't dream much or I didn't remember dreams if I was smoking but when I'd stop it was like all the dreams were stored up behind a dam that would break after a few days and it would be almost too much dreaming. Did you get that?
Good luck, I know I'm late on this and only read the first part... maybe the problem is resolved but this is what has worked for me.
OH... and Ambien or Lunesta... NO! I tried that too. One night I got up and got chocolate and got it all over the bed. One night I got up and got a Strat and got back in bed trying to play and sleep... another night I got up and started drinking bourbon (I had not been drinking that day nor was I drinking regular).. that stuff is scary. You may got to WalMart in your underwear but considering where you live, probably no big deal lol.
J