Yeah, the boxed version is an earlier build. Go ahead and download the X3e update. It has some important patches.
Make sure EZDrummer is in the right place. It should be in Program Files(x86)/Toontrack/EZDrummer. Or alternatively in you Cakewalk VST folder, also in Program File(x86). I prefer to let such programs install to their default location, but different strokes, etc.
Download the 64bit EZDrummer update from Toontrack. This will install the appropriate .dll. Direct that to Program Files/Cakewalk/VSTPugins.
Run the vst scan again, then reset all plugins.
At this point, EZDrummer should load properly when you insert it in your project.
You may need to run EZDrummer as admin. I had to do that with my IK plugins, but I don't remember if I had to do it for EZDrummer.
Also, this forum is for legacy Sonar verions. For future reference, you will want to post in the X Seies forum.
For now, we can address this question in this thead.
Hi Steve

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