With a righteous name like 61LPCUSTOM, how could I not help?
Guitar Rig works in Sonar, I and many others use it all the time. The fact that it doesn't show up as a VST likely means that either it wasn't installed correctly, or it got placed in a folder that Sonar doesn't know to scan.
This thread might provide the solution without your having to go any further:
http://forum.cakewalk.com...onar-X3e-m3041502.aspx If not, try searching your computer for 5.dll and see if Guitar Rig 5.dll shows up. If so, you can locate the folder where it lives, and then instruct Sonar to scan it with the plug-in manager.
As to the learning curve, the first 10% is the hardest. If you can make it past that, you'll find that your knowledge will start to snowball. Welcome aboard!