I've had some success overlaying a generic choir patch with my own vocals. Works great for oohs and aahs, but if mixed a few dB under it even adds thickness to articulated words as well.
For the female parts I either enlist the aid of an actual female if one is handy, or fake it with Melodyne. I once used the free RoVee pitch-shifter plugin to fake a female part and was surprised at how well it worked. You can hear it on my song "Innocent Lies" (click the link in my sig), in the second verse starting at 1:36. It's not a prominent part but in context I think it's pretty convincing.