Phonic,
Yeah I have problems with some of the Softube plugins and the FET is one of them, the other is the Reverb.
I thought it was just me and my setup but when it causes problems it sends a report to Cake, so they should be aware of this issue.
What I do to get it to work again is to restart the program (Sonar X3) (sometimes I have to try that several times) or re-install the Softube plugs (I have backups copies) and so far, after that it starts working again.
I'm waiting for the day when it won't, then its off the the Cake support to get this issue resolved.
With so many replies indicating that they are not having problems , that seems to me that it might be my setup and not the programs themselves. However I don't recall having this issue with either X1 or X2.
I hope that you can get your system working.