Well, I looked at your video which definitely shows what you describe. So I set up a collection of modules exactly as you did, down to the S-Type compressor, the two channels side by side, the Pro Channel flyout, etc. etc. I repeated your steps as precisely as I could, and you know what? Turning on the Solo kept the sidechain effect but muted the drum track audio.
I thought okay, may it's a ProChannel thing because in my example above, I used an effect in the FX bin. Nope. I tried switching one, then the other, then both pro channels from pre to post FX. Added FX to the EQ bin...nope. It worked exactly like I described above. Tried exclusive solo, and that still worked too. Solo Override...nope. It always worked as expected. Then I turned on input echo like you had...not that either.
I'm completely at a loss. Obviously I can't dig into your machine to look at what else is going on, but it sure seems that the setups are identical. Yet there's something that's different.
The only thing I can think of at this point, because this sidechaining technique has worked for me since the dawn of Sonar sidechaining, is that your particular project has some kind of corruption. Does this happen EVERY time you use sidechaining? If you set up a new project from scratch, load up a sustained sound, and gate it with a drum track, does the same thing happen?
Frankly, it's mystifying. I have no idea what it could be about your setup that keeps things from working the way they're working in my setup.
Grem, could you give this a shot and report back on the results?