After I did all the Windows updates I made an image file, I reverted back to it and uninstalled Vsampler first, Vsampler is completely uninstalled, including deleting it's speedsoft folder and the Vsampler.dll found in the Cakewalk vst folder. I then uninstalled and reinstalled X3 using the run as administrator option.
After the install, I didn't launch the application, instead I updated to X3e using the patch and using the run as administrator option. When I did launch X3 I ran it as the administrator and even though Vsampler is completely uninstalled it's showing up in VST scan and crashes it everytime. I tried reset, with no check boxes and then with the check boxes. So far the RXP problem hasn't occurred again and I did see it flash by during the VST scan.
I rebooted and tried it all again to no avail. Also when I did launch the application for the first time it did copy preferences and maybe that's where it got the Vsampler info from. Either that or the VST scan didn't uninstall, since it's used by 8.5 and X1.
In pluggin manager under DXi if I choose "show excluded", it shows Vsampler under excluded. X1 never had this buggy performance with VST scan. I'm at a loss what to try next.