ASIO Buffer Size is from your audio interface. It is sometimes expressed in terms like 'number of samples' or may be a slider value.
You want to end up with a Total Roundtrip Latency at around 10 milliseconds, or just under that value. That value is reported in Sonar Preferences>Audio>Driver Settings.
IF your laptop has a Wi-Fi adapter, this could be part of the problem. Most folks with laptops find that they have to temporarily disable their Wi-Fi adapters right before launching Sonar, then they enable them again right after completing their Sonar session.
So, PLEASE provide your Total Roundtrip Latency value, your ASIO Biffer Size (or whatever your interface calls it), and disable your Wi-Fi adapter, if present, then post back.
Bob Bone