If it is crashing to desktop, it may possibly be something to do with the graphics card, sorry for stating the obvious, but check that you have the latest drivers for that. I once had a similar issue and that was the main cause.
I've not had a perfectly smooth run with sonar, but so far it's been the only one I can get on with consistantly and don't mind staring at it's interface for ages (still prefer the Sonar 8 though lol) I've been able to trace most of my issues by using a mixture of the process manager, event viewer and service manager. I noticed you mention that you have disabled the event viewer >.< that would have been an ideal place to start as this tends to log most things and you would be surprised at what OUTSIDE of Sonar can cause issues whilst it's running.
It might be worth running a scan on your RAM, to check you are not having issues here. Also check that none of the features of the graphics card are causing it to overclock or switch from 2d/3d mode whilst you are using it as this would also cause something along the lines of which you are experiencing.