Are you using onboard sound for other audio and your interface only for SONAR?
This is how I run my machine, and the only way I have found to force Win7 to comply is:
1) Start->"Change sound card settings"
2) Be sure the interface is connected and on (so both appear in the list). If one is not appearing, right click and "Show Disabled/Disconnected Devices"
3) Once in this state, the onboard audio must be explicitly assigned "Set Default," if the onboard audio already is, set the interface as default first, then set the onboard as default.
The above tends to override Win7 "dynamic allocation" of resources it sees, so it should leave your interface alone and allow SONAR to use it "unchallenged."