Often it's a matter of first finding the plug in, then making sure that folder is included.
I was a little miffed when I fell for one of the Sonar plug in deals the other day. A $10 Hammond organ, the demo sounded great etc.
So I paid my money , downloaded and then installed it, It used a windows installer. Sonar couldn't find it. Took me a long time using the Search function and it turned up in the 32 bit section and in Demention Pro. ?? I thought I was getting a 64 bit stand alone, and then it's 32 bit?? Last time I fall for one of Cakewalk stores "deals"
So moral of the story is these plug ins can get scattered all over the place.
And as scook said, there are generally 2 types
The ones that get installed and the ones that you just drop a dll. into your folder.
Look on your Windows programs list first and remove any using the add or remove programs feature.
The dll. type can be deleted manualy, but as scook say's they do no harm and take up very little space. Just tell the plug in manager to remove them from the list.