bsteven,
I was, like you, trying to decide if I should upgrade to X3 from X2. I just did, on the last day of the 15% off sale. I've only used it for one project so far, but I remixed some of my earlier projects to explore some of the changes. I have to admit, I wish I had upgraded earlier. Unlike you, I was having some stability issues with X2, and they seem to have been cleared up (on my setup) in X3d. But aside from that, the improvements in the Pro-Channel EQ, and the bundled Blue Tubes plugins made it worthwhile for me. I had the full versions of Addictive Drums and Addictive Keys already, but XLN was nice enough to let me use the registration code to get 2 ADpaks that I was considering but hadn't bought yet. That alone was almost worth the cost of the the upgrade. And the integration of Melodyne seems better than V-Vocal, although I don't use either very often. Everything seems to be a bit more refined and smoother, too. If you don't mind spending the money, it's definitely worth the upgrade.