Ok, I'm going by memory here, from when I tried out an Octa a while back, so may not be correct.
But iirc, S/PDIF uses ins 9,10 and outs 9, 10, and there is a setting to enable/disable the S/PDIF in, and a setting for whether to clock the Octa from its S/PDIF in (when enabled) or from its internal clock. Or, maybe one of those settings was "Auto", can't recall exactly. But I do recall it was pretty simple, and you could slave to an external clock source via the S/PDIF in.
So, iirc the Octa's S/PDIF out is always active, but the S/PDIF in can be set to on or off and also set to slave or internal clocking (or maybe "auto"?).
Do you have anything connected to the Octa's S/PDIF in? Is your Octa set to internal sync/master?
I do recall that the i/o routing and assignment was fairly complex, due to the internal mixer arrangements, and you could have the ins connect straight through, iow, directly to the corresponding outs, or have certain mix outs routed to certain fixed outs, or assign desired mix outs to desired outs.
Anyhow, assuming you have your desired output tracks assigned to outs 9,10 and have internal clocking set on your Octa, your VRM should slave to the Octa's S/PDIF out.
Does your VRM have a clock or master/slave select setting? If so, make sure it is set to "external" or "slave".