Thanks Guyz...
It just wasn't for me... I guess I'm spoiled as I've had this ability since the very beginning of the digital audio daze as I did in the analog days prior to that...
I know of other ways to create monitor mixes, but none of those variants is what I want to do... Instead I've exchanged it for a Presonus Audiobox 1818VSL which only has 8 analog inputs, but it allows for 18 and I do have another converter that puts out ADAT so I will have 14 balanced balanced inputs and 2 unbalanced analog inputs. tho not true zero latency monitoring, it does do near-zero (<sigh>) with a few monitor mix setups...
Everything's a tradeoff, eh? We'll see if I like this one any better... I found that this one does claim VISTA64 support tho it appears I no longer need it as I've got the MacPro (Dual-Quads) running Win7Pro now and Sonar seems to scream with it and gives me (unusable) 1ms latency with the realtek built in audio! (I'm waiting for the Presonus to arrive)...
I immediately saw how the 1800 was really most suited to non-monitored recording (such as live shows) and that there were hardware options I could contrive to work with it, but I think the 1818vsl will be more what I'm used to.
Thanks again...
Keni