Just to say it again, you guys have been fantastic.
Sorry I didn't make 9 different threads but I would find that very annoying if I was reading the forum.
#3, #4a, #5, #7, #8 solved.
#4b, #6, #9 I just have to suck it up and deal with it.
That only leaves #1 and #2! I will keep experimenting but will make separate thread(s) with more info if I can't figure anything out.