This is one of those topics that people have huge, open opinions about.
Active vs passive, number of monitor-sets, need for a sub-monitor out, heck even rackmount vs desktop.
I used a little ol' ATTY (
http://www.adesignsaudio.com/atty-stereo-attenuator.htm) for years now and it's been ok. I figure my next controller is bound to be an upgrade.
Before the market was full of these types of things (over 5 years ago I think now), I actually had a company designing me one based on my specs. Was such an awesome unit. However, that kinda got washed out over the years and now I'm out a good amount of cash :p
All well that ends well!