You guys bring a tear to my eyes :)
+1 on what they said. Please post back with the following:
1. Are you using a dedicated audio interface, or are you using the on-board sound chip?
2. IF you are using an audio interface, please list the precise model and driver version, in addition to that, please list the Sample Rate and ASIO Buffer Size as found in the UI for the interface.
3. In Sonar, please list the Sample Rate, Record Bit-Depth, and various latency values that Sonar lists in Preferences, and also list the Record and Playback Buffer sizes.
For whatever the worth, if you do not have a dedicated audio interface, you may find some relief to latency issues by downloading and installing a freeware program called ASIO4ALL. This should be considered only a temporary solution, as you will almost certainly still hit the ceiling as to how much you can do with Sonar while using ASIO4ALL.
The better solution to not having a dedicated audio interface is to invest in one, if you intend to seriously pursue using Sonar to create music projects of any significant complexity, although if you are only doing small numbers of audio tracks, ASIO4ALL may possibly do the job for you. (although I personally do not recommend it other than to buy time while shopping for a real interface).
A reasonable simple audio interface will start at around $150, and can go up in cost quite a bit, depending on things like: number of inputs/outputs, quality of converters, number of and quality of pre-amps, and that sort of thing.
In any case, a reasonable place to start with regard to settings for using an audio interface would be:
Sonar Driver Mode: ASIO
Sonar Record-Bit Depth: 24 bits
Sonar and audio interface Sample Rate: either 44.1 k pr 48 k (interface setting for this must match what is set in Sonar)
Interface ASIO Buffer Size: 128 (this can also be expressed in different ways, depending on the interface - if so, shoot for something that gives you at or just under 10 milliseconds of latency, if possible).
I hope this helps, I concur that the lack of an audio interface, or the settings of one, should you have one, is the most likely place to start looking.
Bob Bone