Hey ja,
I'm having the same problem with 2 DMGAudio plugins. I'm going to try your "trick". I'm pretty sure this problem just started with X3d - but I can't be 100% sure.
forget about the reset thing - I've done it dozens of times now and it's just a PIA...
The real problem is that something has changed about how SONAR is handling plugins. I thought it was just me - but now I see that there are a few different plugins doing the same thing. I'm getting involved in all the threads, so I can hear if anyone finds a solution. Likewise, I'll let you know if I find one.