well, the page file issue caused me to do more research...this info seemed consistent from MSDN and Crucial:
1. the page file should be on the SSD. I found some articles that talked about page files increasing with increasing ram, but limiting its size is recommended... and the damage caused by page file type of reads/writes may damage the disk but over a period of 'years.'
2. page files may not be necessary if enough ram is used... these recommendations were 8 or 16 Gb, depending on the apps you use.
3. the page file should be setup as a single size, ie, min=max.
so i'm gonna use 8Gb ram, setup a 2Gb page file on the ssd, and track ram to see if i push the use of 8Gb ram... if that happens, i'll install a couple more sticks... so the page file should not ordinarily be accessed... I may even use a USB 3 ready boost as a page/hibernation/indexing drive, pending further research.