I am really not sure what say here, and curiosity always gets the best of me more than anything else. It seems that many fly in here with the only purpose of "poisoning the well." No real point to be made, no problem to be solved... so I read them a few times to find a "point," and some I walk away from.
Music (to me) is a common thread of "joy"... if folks
enjoy pounding on trash cans with sticks, then so be it... they are happy (beautiful thing actually)! Music spans all income levels and is not proprietary to anyone... so is an interesting field in that respect alone.
Just as an aside... I used to teach English, and often told students that if they master the art of argument, they have won. No one is required to read anything... and in text (especially), if you can validate your point, and have someone acknowledge it, it is a "win." Not that they agree with you, but "see your point." An example would be someone saying, "That movie sucked!"... without the "why" it carries
no weight.
I have read the OP four (4) times now... and simply think "So this opinion undermines people who truly find joy via other means?" I am hard-pressed to see the "point" as I read it again... if another finds
joy in anything else, they may be 20 steps ahead of anyone without it (is rather humbling actually). Anyway... food for thought....