Bouncing, turning of FX, and archiving is much better achieved in a single click via SONAR's freeze function. However, aside from heavy soft-synth usage and, assuming you are not mixing hundreds of tracks with FX, if your computer is choking on merely multiple dozens of effects I would look at:
1) evaluate your current computer's performance to see if something is bogging it down outside of SONAR related processes.
2) upgrading your computer
3) increasing your latency during mixing