Are you experiencing the problem in other projects, or just this one?
Can you change the value in
any of the boxes?
Does everything else work ok? Can you open the tempo map?
Are you running S4 on a newer machine?
I just tried it on mine (in SHS6), both from the transport and the Meter/Key view, and the "at measure" box is available.
I can't find anything in Sonar that would disable this, so I kind of suspect project or program corruption, or a permission issue.