basically download Voicemeeter banana which is donation ware (so free to tightwads) then register with fl studio and download the free FL minihost modular (beta3), you have to restart then open both up and find out what channel your streaming audio is coming through (for mine it was virtual input 2) and set up Voicemeeter to output to your audio device via ASIO. set up which vst folder to scan in FL Minihost, Sonarworks was installed in Program files/vstplugins
then you can drop it into a virtual audio chain with (in my case) the input and output set to channel 15 stereo.
Go into Voicemeeter to enabled the inserts on L and R of virtual input 2 and Bob is your Auntie's live in lover!
there are a couple of vids on how to do this on YouTube, but if like me, you can't stand the waffle, you can just cut to the important bits.