I'm not an expert on this and do not have time to dig deeply into it right now to check it out against your video but in my cursory explorations I was quite pleasantly surprised by Reaper's functionality in this regard. It seemed to me that, with the PRV edit window open (whatever it's called in Reaper), I could select tracks to display, see one or more or all, in different colours, select notes from multiple tracks or takes or only one, and edit as I pleased. The smart tool is maybe not quite as fully implemented as in Sonar but it seemed I could do a lot of the same things, and in many ways I liked it better. I'll have a quick peek at it now to see if it still strikes me the same way...
Hmm. I'm not sure it does exactly what you want in exactly the way you might want it done, but I can definitely select notes from one track and paste then into another track, wherever I like, all from within the midi editor, without closing it to change tracks. I can see and select notes from multiple tracks, move or copy them, pretty much whatever I like. You'll have to check it out for yourself to see if it's what you want but it's pretty flexible, and Reaper is an astonishing powerful DAW, way beyond what I was expecting based on what I saw when I last checked it out a few years ago. Not everyone's cup of tea I guess but I've been pretty blown away by it.