Hi cparmerlee
I use the trackspacer. It's a very handy little plugin and it's just a matter of using a send to the track you want to duck. I usually start with its default setting then adjust from there. It has the capability to isolate the frequency range you want to affect with a high pass/low pass filter built in. It doesn't give any information about the frequencies it's working on though, but I'm sure that could happen in an update.
But having tried it on various things, it really does work well. It adjusts to frequencies in real time or you can freeze it. Maybe surprisingly, it works well on sparse mixes say, vocal and acoustic guitar. (You'd simply insert a send from the vocal to the guitar buss and Sonar will give the option of sending to the track which contains trackspacer )
Not so good maybe at creating space for a vocal against a whole full on backing track as you may hear the ducking. So you have to be a bit more selective about the instruments sitting in the same frequency range within the mix that you want to duck ... if that made sense!
Definitely worth demoing.
As a plugin, it could work for the OP's predicament ... (in combination with all the suggestions above about arrangement etc.) If the cello is playing arpeggios (original post) it's maybe covering quite a large note range quickly. The trackspacer would adapt to that as it goes along.