Sonar X1 and X2 is supported by Waves - but not X3, yet or not at all, I don't know.
So Cake has probably been in contact with Waves for X1 and X2 at least.
Your description is really vague - and no computer specs or anything.
I think a specific project setup would help to compare - and give Cake a chance to look at it.
I have not fiddled with X3 settings so much yet, but in 8.5 I added some stuff when I got my i7 machine to run more smooth. It was settings in AUD.INI as I remember.
I also changed many BIOS settings in computer to allow all cores running all the time, not allow dynamic overclocking etc. Different software is a different builld and will be affected more or less with these settings and most likely are having different default settings.
I know Reaper is very low on resources but there are big differences between plugins as well. The Marroquin bundle is really high on any daw.
And Reaper is using a different graphics library it seems - some plugins like Dorroughs meters does not even draw on screen to be usable at all in Reaper.
And finally - don't rely on cpu meters in either daw - look at system level what is used. How you do it on the daw may differ a lot.