Dunno if this will change anything?
In my case the S70XS shows up twice in the VST3 list, as "DSP based" and "external" . Given that Sonar has no way of knowing if the synth is ran with DSPs or hamsters I select external, not DSP based as you did...
there was another thread about MOX.. perhaps pm the poster to compare notes, but iirc his issue was communication (as mine was)
if you get it to load, I did a video to go over setup..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDCprqddPlg