Thanks for all the comments, I leanerned some things and had some things confirmed.
I should have mentioned that I have TH3 full (recent Cake sale), and Amplitube 4 (iRig sale).
TH3 has a ton of stuff, but many of the amps are high gain weirdos that I am not familiar with. For some reason most of the presets have a Ross compressorset to an unusable setting. (Thanks YouTube). I find the interface on TH3 to be a bit Byzantine. I have to give a shout out to Overloud including a DC2, one of my favorite pedals.
I got Amplitube 4 Deluxe on the current sale for $100 with an interface thrown in. The Marshalls, having been most recently updated, seem to be pretty good. I had some IK points to get the Vibroverb amp and cab and like it as well.
I also like the user interface, it seems a bit more immediate.
I also have Waves GT3, and haven't even given it a spin. I have some work to do.
I suppose part of the challenge with sims is learning what each does well.