X3 actually loads faster than X2 and earlier. Some things to troubleshoot for slow loading of the app.
- The audio or MIDI interface could be taking long to initialize. Set audio driver to the default windows driver to test
- A control surface could be taking long to initialize - disable all control surfaces to test
- Disable antivirus software - that can slow down loading because of excessive checks
- defrag the system drive, check for disk read errors on the drive as well
- Try disabling VST scan on startup. This shouldn't make a difference but you can try it.
- check if its slow loading the app or a specific project
- If you have a different normal template with lots of plugins that could take time to load