Hi pop-star. I have a UCX, as you know, and I use Sonar X2a x64 on Windows 8 (dual core laptop). I have a firewire jack, but I've been using the USB interface exclusively so far (only got it in December). I too experience very short lags related to the arming of tracks. I find if I quick group the tracks, the lag hits only once (half a second to arm 8 tracks rather than 8 half seconds). I select the tracks I want and ctrl+click the arm button.
I don't have this issue with my Fast Track Ultra using USB.
On the other hand, I used to get system crashes related to the fast track ultra if I failed to turn it off before sleeping or restarting my system, which I don't get with the UCX.
In general, while I do notice bits of latency here and there that seem related to the UCX driver (like I hit the play button and there is a miniscule pause before playback starts -- btw, this could be the bajillion fx on the trax).
It really doesn't bother me that much. I don't tend to arm and un-arm tracks all the time. I'll arm 10 tracks and then let it run for 3 hours. What's a half a second over three hours.
So, it doesn't bother me. That doesn't mean it's fixed though. We also don't have Windows 8 drivers yet. It will be interesting when those come out. It looks like drivers were updated in December 2012, so we may be waiting a bit for the next revision.
Sorry this is bugging you.
BTW, here are some tunes from the first recording I've made with the UCX.
http://stabilitynetwork.blob.core.windows.net/g-tunes/base8.htm