Since it sounds like this is a dedicated computer, I suggest you give consideration to completely starting over on this computer, reloading EVERYTHING - including the OS.
As noted above, once Windows 7 came along, the need for the raft of tuning optimizations to run Sonar vanished, and some of these can actually cause problems.
Since there is NO history here in the forum of Sonar not even loading on computers running Windows 7 - (quite the opposite, Windows 7 is very friendly to Sonar) - I suspect you have inadvertently jazzed things up to a point beyond where Sonar can function properly.
Back up your projects and any other data files and folders you want to retain, and nuke it all and just reload everything - this time WITHOUT tinkering, and then see where things stand.
There are lots of folks here in the forum who will go to great lengths to assist you, but at the moment I am am not sure anybody can do much for you until you get back to a 'normal' state of affairs with Windows.
Again - if the kinds of failure you are experiencing were at all common, you would have seen evidence of it in the forum posts, and I just have not seen that.
Bob Bone