To hide a plug-in in the Plug-in Manager, you can use the "Exclude Plug-in" button in the bottom right of the Plug-in Manager.
To remove a DXi entry run the cmd.exe as administrator and at the DOS prompt type "regsvr32 /u" with the name of the DXi dll.
I have not installed VSampler recently so I have no firsthand experience with it on Win7.
If your .sig is correct running 64bit SONAR may be difficult with only 4GB of RAM.
Given the age of the plug-in, I would not be surprised if it does require SONAR to be run as administrator. Moreover, since it is a 32bit only plug-in, the VST may have problems running in 64bit SONAR.